tumblr's prolly gonna delete half my shit so this is a backup b/c i can't even get the download to work (guess 2 gb is too much for my miserable connection to handle without shitting out like 5 network errors)
the phrase daddy issues makes me so mad like no this isnt some ‘issue’ we have its a system of neglect and emotional incompetence thats excused and encouraged in men and then somehow reflects badly on young girls for being lost and im so mad
The man fails as a father and we laugh at the neglected girl
Meanwhile, some of the most respected works of literature and film are about men’s confrontations with their shitty dads, and those are seen as compelling, emotional, gritty stories.
I don’t think these are good things to say to people. But when you’re (barely) running on 4 or less hours of sleep because of the complicated quantum mechanics problem set you’ve been slaving away at for a week and the lab bullshit that is one credit for hours upon hours of work… It’s hard to relate to non-STEM majors because you’re in survival mode, not polite mode. Hard work to them manifests differently. It’s not wrong or lesser, it’s just different. And we don’t understand them just as much as they don’t understand us.
Still not an excuse to be an asshole. But I get it.
STEM major: YOU dont ✋ know when you barely running on 4 hours⏰⏳👌 of sleep because of complicated quantum🔆💯 mechanics. YOU don’t know 💉💊STEM if you’re not📐📝 StEM. You just dont understand us. 😣
countess k8's tumblr backup 