tumblr's prolly gonna delete half my shit so this is a backup b/c i can't even get the download to work (guess 2 gb is too much for my miserable connection to handle without shitting out like 5 network errors)
I hate porn in general, but “lesbian” porn has a special hatred in my heart because of the way it affects me, an actual lesbian. I despise the men who watch lesbian porn and I honestly wish they would all drop dead. I’ve been harassed for holding hands with a girl in public, cooed at for giving a girl a peck on the lips, and interrupted while I was dancing with a girl at a bar so some ugly ass pornsick man could demand to “join”. And got mad when we told him to fuck off! And no one thinks this is a problem. “Oh, they’re not bothering you by watching porn!!!” Uh, yes they fucking are! They’re so brainwashed by porn that they think it’s okay to harass actual lesbians in public because porn has taught them that lesbians are their fantasy and secretly want their dick.
So if you’re a man who watches lesbian porn, kindly wipe yourself off the face of the planet.
Reblogging because some dumb fuck just tried to defend pornography in the replies, DAYS after two men had to be thrown out of a bar for being aggressive and harassing my date and I and then waited for us outside of the bar.
“It is absurd to tell women to love themselves in a world that alienates them from their own flesh. No amount of one-quarter-moisturiser soap can wash away the knowledge of what your female body means to others: sex object, breeder, wank fodder, window dressing, on-set extra. The distress women feel when confronted with image after image of extreme thinness cannot simply be characterised as “I want to look like that so that men love me”. A woman might actually be thinking “women are supposed to look like that because men do not like us at all”. Or “I want to look like that so that my body will be less fleshy, less female and less real”. Women starve, binge and purge because they feel trapped in bodies that are not “theirs”. The trouble is, there’s never a female body that fits.”
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No More Skinny is a campaign to redirect the objectification of women, not fight it – Glosswitch
Jolene by Dolly Parton except it’s playing downstairs while you’re laying up in the loft of a cabin listening to the thunder and rain hitting the roof tiles above you