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snakegay:

intellectually its fine for cishet people to refer to their cishet s/o as their ‘partner’ bc it helps normalize the phrase and allows gay/bi people leeway in terms of not outing themselves while also not lying but like. emotionally the toll of someone saying ‘partner’ and meaning her cishet bearded microbrew hipster boyfriend whos into pegging is like. severe

jawas:

so much kink shit is just men trying to justify their desire to hurt women and pretend like they can go into a room, hurt someone, get off to hurting someone, and then walk out as if that doesn’t mean anything about who they are as a person

appropriately-inappropriate:

sweetgrumdrop:

the-paper-dragon:

I am a dude with a boyfriend.

We’re both Asian.

We went on a bus and sat in front of two girls.

I kissed behind his ear (and then he punched me in the arm, he’s shy in public) and I heard one of them whisper to the other something along the lines of “We get to see close up yaoi on here!”.

(Neither of us are even Japanese)

I was kinda offended, so I took my boyfriend by the hand and left.

It made us feel very uncomfortable.

I just want to say:

Our love and relationship isn’t for your entertainment.

Nor is it here for you to fetishize and sexualize.

Please just keep your “yaoi xDD” to just fiction, and please do not call us “yaoi”.

Many dismiss this as not a problem, which I find rude as they have never experienced this so they don’t really have much to say against this.

Thank you for reading.

– Submitted by Anonymous

* ^^^ Sorry to hear that anon D: that’s pretty terrible.

Really? I guess being accepted is just as bad as being hated. I bet of the girls had hissed in disgust he’d be sobbing and ranting about acceptance.

That’s not acceptance, that’s being fetishized, and it’s just as bad as the dude that sees my girlfriend and I holding hands and asks if we’d like a bit of meat between our buns.

And that whole “sobbing and ranting” thing is another homophobic stereotype, of the Crying Queen flavour.

You’re JUST as bad as those creeps. Take your SasuNaru bullshit and stay the hell away from actual gay men.

damianalghul:

feeling utter indifference to men is such a powerful feeling. I look at a man and all I feel is blasé. unimpressed. men are just fundamentally boring to me.

citruswisdom:

citruswisdom:

citruswisdom:

yall really need to fucking chill w that mogai shit!

sry but telling 14 year olds that they’re lithromantic or whatever when they arent comfortable with romantic relationships/being physically close to people/other people liking them is actually uuuuhhhhh bad!

fun fact: being A Literal Child and dealing with internalised homophobia/comp het/not being emotionally or mentally mature enough to deal with other people’s feelings towards you is Not the same as having a specific lgbt identity lmao

rubyfruitjunggle:

Remember when that effeminate ass gay guy from 13 Reasons Why told Courtney, after having come out as a lesbian in front of an entire courtroom of people, that while he was happy for her he would “stage an intervention if she started wearing flannel and driving a suburu” meanwhile he’s gay, flamboyant, and limpwristed as fuck?

And anyone else notice how every lesbian character on teen drama shows are always hyper feminine and half of the time cheerleaders? Not to mention all the relationships between these cheerleader types always portray lesbianism as painting eachothers nails and braiding eachothers hair. Like lesbianism is a 6th grade slumber party just with kissing and hand holding.

Its almost like we’re teaching young people that it’s okay to be a lesbian but it’s never okay to be a dyke.