Author: countessk8

tumblr's prolly gonna delete half my shit so this is a backup b/c i can't even get the download to work (guess 2 gb is too much for my miserable connection to handle without shitting out like 5 network errors)

animate-mush:

jdkaplonski:

shoren18:

damnselfly:

quick protip: if someone is crying or freaking out over something minor, eg wifi not connecting, can’t find their hat, people talking too loud, do NOT tell them how small or petty the problem is to make it better. they know. they would probably love to calm down. you are doing the furthest possible thing from helping. people don’t have to earn expressions of feelings.

I’m just gonna put it out there that if someone’s freaking about something small, they’re really freaking out about something big that they’re trying to deal with, or something long term that’s been building up, and that little thing is the straw that broke the camel’s back.

I don’t know, try and give people the benefit of the doubt. Don’t be the next straw on their broken back.

Needed this today.

People don’t actually go from 0 to 60. If you think they did, you have failed to notice how long they’ve been at 59.

thepessimisticasshole:

so in one of my classes we were making moodboards, just pieces of paper with magazine cutouts that represent us pasted all over them and this guy i’ve never talked to leans over and he’s like ‘you’re gay, right’ and i’m like ‘…sort of?’ and he silently handed me a cutout of ellen degeneres and went back to his work

drowning4youu:

things to be happy about:
– finding a new favorite song
– taking a hot bath when you’re really cold
– finishing a good book
– having sex with someone you really love
– falling asleep at the beach
– sunscreen on a babies nose
– getting into a freshly made bed
– coming home after a long vacation
– watching the people you love most laugh
– painting your nails
– hot cups of tea when it’s raining
– coming home after a long day
– waking up and stretching

benepla:

not to kinkshame but if a girl told me “yeah I’m in a 24/7 dom/sub relationship where I’m the sub and this greasy man with a ponytail calls me worthless for sexual kicks literally 24/7” I would make it a life goal to kill him