vincedakota:

i think the worst idea that this site has popularized vis a vis mental health is that its okay to treat your friends like therapists, and that its expected they react like one when you have an episode or breakdown

its a lot like approaching a friend and going “hey, you bandaged my cooking burn once, can you give me open heart surgery?” and getting upset when either they refuse to do so or getting hurt when they dont have the knowledge needed to do it safely.

people can support you, and they can help you out of rough patches, but relying on them for your continued functionality and stability is stressful and dangerous for everyone involved.

liddrose:

listen. cut off your hair. cut off all your damn hair. do you ever hear a man wondering if he’s too ugly to have short hair? no!!! there is no such thing as too ugly to have short hair. if you don’t want your hair, just cut off your hair. it feels so so so good.

cohnflay:

Repost to save a life

willpowred:

lesbianplebeian:

ah yes, the four main food groups: chinese takeaway, coffee, carbohydrates, and pussy

hashtagdion:

Straight people: I’m straight.

Gay people: I’m gay.

“Bisexual” celebrities: I’m like a tub of tomato soup that someone spilled blue paint in. Wait fuck, tomato soup cans have labels and I FUCKING HATE LABELS. Girls and guys are both attractive though. 🤷🏾‍♂️ Noooo I’m not dating someone of my same sex. 🤢 Or am I? 😏 Gays, you can deposit your paycheck directly into my PayPal at this email address.

‘Sed medicinae’, inquit, ‘tempus est quam querelae.’

Boethius

“But it’s a time for healing,” she said, “and not for more tears.”

(via labentiasidera)

you know what’s even better than a guilty pleasure?

adhdkirabraginsky:

a smug indulgence. tell yourself, “i’m gonna do this thing because i like it, and there’s nothing you can do to make me feel bad about it!” eat that cake! read that romance novel! be free!!!

dongsurfer:

catracism:

the faster you learn to say ‘this is hideous, i love it’ about an item of clothing and genuinely mean it, the faster no one can take away your happiness about your clothes because they can be like ‘what the fuck are you wearing’ and the only answer you can give is a gleeful ‘i KNOW isn’t it HIDEOUS!’

And once you’ve accomplished this, you can do this with everything. My clothes? ugly. My furniture? Tacky. My car? hideous!

Bring the hideous into your entire life and experience the true zen of not giving a fuck