snakegay:

intellectually its fine for cishet people to refer to their cishet s/o as their ‘partner’ bc it helps normalize the phrase and allows gay/bi people leeway in terms of not outing themselves while also not lying but like. emotionally the toll of someone saying ‘partner’ and meaning her cishet bearded microbrew hipster boyfriend whos into pegging is like. severe

jawas:

so much kink shit is just men trying to justify their desire to hurt women and pretend like they can go into a room, hurt someone, get off to hurting someone, and then walk out as if that doesn’t mean anything about who they are as a person

citruswisdom:

citruswisdom:

citruswisdom:

yall really need to fucking chill w that mogai shit! 

sry but telling 14 year olds that they’re lithromantic or whatever when they arent comfortable with romantic relationships/being physically close to people/other people liking them is actually uuuuhhhhh bad!

fun fact: being A Literal Child and dealing with internalised homophobia/comp het/not being emotionally or mentally mature enough to deal with other people’s feelings towards you is Not the same as having a specific lgbt identity lmao